Have you noticed a woman you are really attracted to? Do you keep seeing her at school, or on the bus, or at mass, and each time you end up hesitating to go over and talk to her?
Deep down you would really like to approach her, get to know her, and possibly ask her on a date, but since you don’t know her, you may be unsure about the best way to approach her to get her to like you.
Let’s see if we can make it a little simpler for you…
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If possible, you can make the approach more comfortable by learning a little bit about her. For example, if she’s the friend of a friend or if you’ve seen someone you know talking to her, then you may be able to learn a little bit about her before you make your move. Also, observe and pay attention to what she’s doing, what she’s wearing, what she carries around with her, etc. as you may notice things that can give you good conversation starters.
If she’s someone you see often and there is absolutely nothing you can do to learn more about her, you can take small steps to start to approach her. For example, when you see her, give her a big smile. The next time you see her, smile and just say hello as you pass by. At this point you might not be able to start a conversation, but just saying hello will help to break the ice.
With your next interaction, try to be a little more intimate by complimenting her on something. Just make sure it is not an awkward statement that might frighten her off. Complimenting her on her clothes is usually a good idea. Something as simple as, “You look really cute in that dress” can do wonders.
Striking up a conversation is the best method at this point. Through it all, it is very important that you be yourself. Do not try to exaggerate things or to look better than you really are. The more confident you are, the better your chances of attracting her to you. You want her to like you for who you really are.
Once you have talked a bit, you will be able to gauge her reactions. If you think that she is somehow indicating that she would like to move on, do not intimidate her by forcing the conversation. If things are going well, end the conversation while its going good rather than waiting until you run out of things to say. That will leave her wanting more time with you. Be confident and don’t be afraid to ask her for her contact details.